Has anybody connected nokia 7250 with Tungsten T?

hi,

would like to send pics and ring tones between those two devices.

What connection to use?
the n 7250 has IR but when enabled it don't connect. I don't see a IR
output window anywhere on this nokia. Like the TT has a IR black
screen on top which means it has IR. But this nokia ...

Also which program is available for TT for sending ring tones?

help...