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I tried making the laptop to phone transfer again without the passkey and
after picking a file and clicking next it goes to a screen where it says
connecting.... It then comes back with the following error -

"A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly
respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because
connected host has failed to respond."

My BT is on and working because the files can go the other direction so I
know that's not the issue. Is there something that is supposed to be
activated on the phone prior to sending to receive the transfer request?